Where and when do i draw the line and just walk away?
Sasha S asked:
What? I discovered that my husband of four years is by signing up to all these different Web site of dating and is having erotic chat with all sorts of women. I know all her password and I'm looking at his activities? online. I also composed a score with false identity? false to one of these places now attends and is chatting with him for a moment, we have exchanged the nude pics (not me in them of course), we have sex I'm in line, etc.. But recently? been reassigned because of his work and have come to discover that the programs did with one of these women that he 's chatting with to meet and date that night told me she was going to lunch with his friends. Cos I? I compared him crazy the following day, he denied everything until I have to show that no proof, then I him I said that it was nothing, he was just having fun. I compared the woman who was out with, as you well but I refused cos she was? find that crazy? been married, what are they? ? angry if they ever even leave together, right? Here 'just s the scandal, as I was proposing as a person and I was communicating with him, he was planning on obtaining this person (me) that does not know anything about where he had to leave so they could have sex. Even he was planning on the ticket. What? we have a child together that I want to leave but I am not sure what to do because of my kid. Jane D. fair Do not know anything about my situstion, alright? Are pantofolaia a mom, my son will be? due in 2 weeks, He 's the speech was delayed spends most of the day interacting with him, I cook, clean and i do all the other stuff around the house. Since my son was born my husband seems to lose interest in sex, why? I gained a few pounds and have stretch marks above my tummy. Before that my child is born we have had a great sex life there 's no romance when he' s cornea him just comes to me and wants to have sex no foreplay or anything like that then when we 're done rolls over and goes to sleep. I do not ever say that i 'm the beautiul, or I seem good or something like that. He 'll say that these other women all these things time some of them are all really great, as in fat. COS? me I went online to discover these things, s? I had to sink to that level because I wanted to know how far that was ready to go get situated. I am not saying that they are perfect perch? are no
What? I discovered that my husband of four years is by signing up to all these different Web site of dating and is having erotic chat with all sorts of women. I know all her password and I'm looking at his activities? online. I also composed a score with false identity? false to one of these places now attends and is chatting with him for a moment, we have exchanged the nude pics (not me in them of course), we have sex I'm in line, etc.. But recently? been reassigned because of his work and have come to discover that the programs did with one of these women that he 's chatting with to meet and date that night told me she was going to lunch with his friends. Cos I? I compared him crazy the following day, he denied everything until I have to show that no proof, then I him I said that it was nothing, he was just having fun. I compared the woman who was out with, as you well but I refused cos she was? find that crazy? been married, what are they? ? angry if they ever even leave together, right? Here 'just s the scandal, as I was proposing as a person and I was communicating with him, he was planning on obtaining this person (me) that does not know anything about where he had to leave so they could have sex. Even he was planning on the ticket. What? we have a child together that I want to leave but I am not sure what to do because of my kid. Jane D. fair Do not know anything about my situstion, alright? Are pantofolaia a mom, my son will be? due in 2 weeks, He 's the speech was delayed spends most of the day interacting with him, I cook, clean and i do all the other stuff around the house. Since my son was born my husband seems to lose interest in sex, why? I gained a few pounds and have stretch marks above my tummy. Before that my child is born we have had a great sex life there 's no romance when he' s cornea him just comes to me and wants to have sex no foreplay or anything like that then when we 're done rolls over and goes to sleep. I do not ever say that i 'm the beautiul, or I seem good or something like that. He 'll say that these other women all these things time some of them are all really great, as in fat. COS? me I went online to discover these things, s? I had to sink to that level because I wanted to know how far that was ready to go get situated. I am not saying that they are perfect perch? are no
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7 Responses to “Where and when do i draw the line and just walk away?”
By ragdoll1959 on Jun 12, 2009
what can you live with?
By P1 Rubber Ducky on Jun 14, 2009
this is the point where you google for a divorce lawyer.
if you caught his hand in the red paint of cheating and he is still dening it there is no point.
i mean come on he was going to have sex with you thinking that you are someone else.
what more proof do you need? do you need to catch him in bed and him saying “oops I sliped and fell in her p***y” would that be proof enough for you?
Do you want your child growing up thinking this is the way a “man” treats the woman he “loves” i don’t think so!
By Glo★ on Jun 18, 2009
What more do you need? What do you mean you do not want to leave because you have a child together. You may not want to hear this. But stop using the child as an excuse. This man is placing your health at risk physically, emotionally and mentally. And if you are ill who is going to care for the child? What about AIDS? You need to make a choice and do the right thing for your child. You have all of the proof you need. And this child deserves the right to grow up in a stable and healthy environment. And this can be with two healthy parents or one. I would suggest you get yourself some counseling to assist you in this denial process you are in. And give your child a life it deserves with at least one healthy parent. You need to do the right thing for your child.
By Val on Jun 18, 2009
Oh no, you leave. You caught him red handed. What a jerk. Run!
By Namaste on Jun 19, 2009
Nothing is ever easy,,prepare ur kid,, be sure u can provide therapy for him n u n leave,,its obviouse ur husband doesnt love u he wants be a man whore find leave bc at the end of the day when his done being an A******* he will be alone like a dog,,dont tolarate it do it for ur child,,
By midnight2197 on Jun 22, 2009
The only thing I would be worried about at this point is how after the divorce I wouldn’t see my child every single day. Even with primary custody there would be a few days visitation a week or so. And whether he could be man enough to be a good father for those days. I would hate dealing with all that. But hopefully he will be too worried his flings to fight for sole custody. It’s better that your child has mommy alive and not dying of AIDS or hepatits and come from a divorced family. The alternative is good for no one. Well, maybe your husband.
By Jane D on Jun 23, 2009
Ok here’s the shocker you say. I can’ t believe you spent this much energy on tracking him down like a private investigator even making up a name and meeting him on line and haveing sex.. What you should have done since you went that far is pick at his brain to find out what was making him stray and see where you could have fixed things. instead of playing along that long. In the end what have you accomplished at least if your going to play that long winded game you should have come back with some great ideas to keep things going. instead you played it all wrong.
secondly instead of spending that much time going into emails and countless web site you need to be talking to him you needed to find out why he’s doing these t hings. Can you honestly say things are great at home. I m not giving him allowance here or backing him up. but what i am saying is somewhere along the line the marriage has crumbled long before he got onto the net. and I think you need to make it your business how to fix things if its not to late. and start communicating with him. So waht your married and have a child does that mean either of you are in wedded bliss. NO!..
So to be blunt get off the computer and start talking find out how this all got messed up and I hope you both can fix this. Its not to late. Depending how much you both want this to work
God bless and good luck.
In furture if your going to play the single girl dating and you catch your husband at least pick at his brains to find out whats got him doing this. YOu could be the other woman right in his own home. Get with the program girly. ! what a missed opportunity MAn that suck!