No doubt you are feeling some serious emotional pain right now. Your emotions are probably up & down like a rollercoaster. Well, stopping all contact with her will do two things.

First things first, you get to have some important healing time. Healing on an emotional level is very important. This is important in two ways, your wellbeing. And also important to the plan to get her back.

You may well blow any remaining chance of getting your ex back if you aren’t in control of those emotions. Being in control allows you to glide through any potential explosive situation. This demonstrates just how mature you can be.

Second on the list, stopping all contact allows her to miss you. You could be thinking that she finished it so why miss you now? It’s a fact that she will notice you aren’t there anymore.

If she wonders where you are, this means your ex is thinking about you. It’s preferable to be in your ex’s thoughts in any way possible than not at all. If you are not around and she thinks about you, the thoughts will probably be good.

“I get the point, no contact. For how long?” I suppose everyone is different and so will the period of absence. Not more than three or four weeks though, you don’t want her moving on.

What’s the next step you may ask. “I’m in full control and want to win her back, how do I do it?” It’s a good question and the answer I would give anyone is to put together a game plan. A complete blueprint to show you how to win her back.

Your options are… Use your own techniques to win her back. Best of luck if you go this route. Or maybe try a proven method made by someone else.

It’s hard to believe but there are a few systems like that on the net. Methods that have been proven to work over and over. Methods that you can follow simply, step by step.

To say I was skeptical when I first discovered a system like this is an understatement. It came as a shock, but it didn’t take long for me to start believing. One such method has testimonials from six thousand couples, and counting!

You have a choice to make, try to win her back all by yourself. Or take the sensible route and utilise the skills of other people who have had success. I don’t know about you but I know I would take the second route.

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You may not realise but we are all subjected to some sort of psychological mind games almost every day. Governments, employers, even our friends and partners. Take the employee of the month competition. You don’t win anything other than bragging right but the overall production goes up.

She returns your call without you even asking
It works like this, we love getting letters, don’t we? As long as they aren’t bills! You send her a handwritten note. You tell her how good things are for you right now and that you would like to thank her.

This works in two ways. First she’s curious and then comes the pride. The note mentions a “thank you”, she can’t for the life of her think why you would thank her. There’s the curiosity. And the pride comes in when she realises you’ve thanked her for something good she’s done. She cannot resist calling you to find out why you thanked her. You say thank you for (the breakup) making you realise it was the right thing.

Of course the real reason for the letter was to get her to call you. If you play this one right you can eventually have her believe she made first contact with you again. See, you never once in the letter asked her to call you. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.

I can show you later on where to get an exact blueprint for the actual letter to send. There are a few other good tricks like this as well.

Play on her good memories
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. If for instance you know what her all time fav song is, you can use this. Food and smells are good as well.

Say she calls you (after she got your letter), you can have her fav song on in the background just loud enough that she hears it. In the back of her mind when she thinks of that song she thinks of the most recent time she heard it, that was on the phone to you. Linking her fav song with you then transfers some of the good stuff she feels about the song to you.

Curious jealousy
This is where you start to go out with friends and you make sure you have a great time. But more importantly you engineer it so that she also knows you had a great time.

Don’t go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She definitely doesn’t expect you to be moving on so quick after the breakup. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.

These few tactics are just some of the many things you can use to win her back. Some people may frown on them but it’s not like you are going to hypnotise her and steal her away. But using these tips on their own will likely lead nowhere.

You need to be using them as part of an overall master plan to win her back. If you don’t have a proper step by step system to follow you are going in blind. Failure is likely without a plan.

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How To Win Her Back – With A Few Solid Psychological Tactics