Secrets to Making Her Say “Yes”
Realize this first gentlemen, you will NEVER ever get the girl to
say “yes” if you’re afraid of walking up to her. If you
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I’ve talked to hundreds of women about the qualities
they find most attractive in men, and a sense of humor
is usually the first quality they mention.
But are women being phony when they say this?
Do they say this because they really do not want to
appear shallow—when what they really want is a tall,
muscular hunk with a ton of cash?
If the ability to make a woman laugh was such a huge turn-on,
then wouldn’t stand-up comedians get laid more than rock stars?
Everyone knows dudes that are like the class clown who are
constantly saying hilarious things, and they’re usually the
LAST dudes to make out. Girls find them entertaining, but do not feel
any sexual attraction.
Here’s the truth.
When girls say they LOVE and want a “sense of humor”, what they really
mean is they love the deeper ATTITUDE that a sense of humor
points to.
Dudes that are playful, nonchalant and funny around girls-
and even better, can bust on women and tease them a little —
are noticibly confident and totally in control of their world.
These dudes don’t glance at girls for approval.
They don’t radiate anxiety.
They just don’t ever look like the MUST get a girl’s number
or make out with her. You can trace this back to 2 tenets that in
the Persuasion & Mack Mastery Program.
1. Women love men who present a challenge.
2. Girls are enthralled by guys that are “in demand” and obviously
have other romantic/sexual options.
Chicks, naturally, are very competitive and jealous when it comes to
men. Give her the sense that she’ll have to step up and WIN you
away from other girls, and the real game is on!
A playful, cocky guy radiates this attitude.
In order to have this mindset means you have to end second-guessing
yourself. You’ve got to squash that little voice in your head
that tells you why you SHOULDN’T approach a girl, or try to go
to the next step with the girl.
Your normal, everyday dude takes himself way too seriously when it comes
to women, and is constantly asking himself unnecessary questions:
“Does this shirt look good on me?”
“Is she going to get annoyed if I walk up and talk to her?”
“What if she has a boyfriend?”
“Where should I take her on a date?”
“What if we run out of things to talk about?”
“i wonder if I ask her for her number, will she see me as some kind of stalker?”
“Is it too soon to try to touch her?”
When you let your mind shoot out these kinds of questions, it
RUINS your ability to be spontaneous, playful and fun.
You are letting yourself become preoccupied with non-important
details, when you SHOULD be asking yourself questions that
boost your confidence and remind you to stay sharp and on
top of your game:
“This girl is cute, but is she interesting enough for me to date?’
“Is this girl funny & smart enough to have a conversation with me?”
“What can I teach this girl, that she’d never learn from the
normal dude?”
“What should I mention about myself, to really make this girl
curious about me?”
“How far am I going to take this tonight, and what’s my plan?”
Ok, when it comes to the verbal questions you ask girls, you have
also have to understand how to “spin” them to make them very good.
When you’re getting to know a girl, and you make a request that
she can simply say “no” to, chances are she will:
Him: Can I buy you a drink?
Girl: Nope.
Him: Please lets exchange numbers?
Girl: Nope.
Guy: Is it ok if I give you a kiss?
Her: No.
Him: Want to go back to my place?
Her: No effing way~Girl: You have got to be kidding me, no~Her: Over my dead body}.
Him: Can I see you again?
Her: Ummm….I’ve got a lot of things to do for the next 8 months.
One technique is to rephrase your questions so that you give
women “false choices.” This means you are not giving her the
chance to say “no.”
You’re just expecting that she will go with whatever you say, and
implying that. Lead the conversation, & if she is at all
interested in you, or at least curious, she’ll go along with
it & never ever reject you with a “no.”
BAD: May I get you a cocktail?
MACK: So tell me something interesting about yourself, that’s
going to make me want to have a drink with you.
BAD: Do you want to come back to my house?
MACK: Let’s go to my place and I’ll show you that _______ I
told you about. (Fill in the blank with something you
mentioned earlier, that you want to show her.) I’ve got
some good wine…but I’ve got to be up early tomorrow, so
just one glass.
BAD: Hey there, do you like to dance?
GOOD: I think I’m gonna have to pull you onto the dance floor. I
don’t want you standing here looking like a wallflower.
WACK: Would you like to hang out sometime?
MACK: My friends told me about this new lounge that has great
music on Thursday & Sunday nights. Which evening is best for you?
Keep in mind: ordinary, boring dudes are always asking for permission
from women. The result of this is a ton of “no’s” and even more of
disappointment, frustration, and masturbation.
In the meantime… flip the script and start “spinning” your questions
to make them more powerful, interesting and effective. Incidentally,
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