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Help me, i have an addiction? (Dont judge me)?

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Charlie Brown asked:


Are employed to erotic massage. Ive recently that wastes a lot of money on them and on their control me. I love them just when women touch him like that. ive never failed too, and lately ive dating who needs sexual stuff, so ive to get erotic massage. What should I do? Chamfer would just skip the money away on these things, even if they feel great. but I have to break the addition and to develop healthy relationships instead. Please Do judge. im not paying that sex, just massage sexy. but should I go out there and value relationships more. We can show you? No rude comments, please.

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  1. 5 Responses to “Help me, i have an addiction? (Dont judge me)?”

  2. By Mierya M on May 7, 2009

    It’s prob just hormones in your body because you are looking for someone special in you life, I understand I have medical depression from abuse. And I have been looking for new friends too. Maybe you can meet new ladies and Church that will treat you nice and care for you not for you to pay them but because they really care :) . I would like to be your friend, if you would like don’t hesitate to add me and God bless :) .

  3. By Alex. Larkin on May 7, 2009

    You said it yourself, “Get out there and value relationships more.”
    This isn’t a rude comment or a sarcastic one.
    It’s simple as fuck.
    You know it.
    If something does not sit right with you and you have power to change it.
    Then change it.
    Be creative.

    Good Luck.

  4. By happychicamia_shane on May 9, 2009

    i think that u need to find someone that loves u. then u would not want to get those anymore maybe. but u have to think about the fact that if u r hooked on something anything it is hard to stop. it sounds like the border of a sex addiction without the sex. u need to talk with someone and get some support. they have groups on yahoo groups that u can join and talk about your problams. try that maybe that will help.

  5. By Vostro 1500 overclocked! on May 12, 2009

    Calm down. This is completely normal, to begin with. Everybody is like you, it’s just that not everybody has the guts to tell their weaknesses/addiction, and i admire you for this.

    Ok, let’s concentrate on the problem now. Let’s get your life back on track. As from now, make schedules of the things that you really enjoy doing-dxcluding massages- so as to always keep your mind busy. Also, go out more, socialise and make new friends. Dn’t stay at home doing nothing, empty minded is evil minded. Going out more often increaser your chances to have a real relationship, gets you out of the massage habbit, and makes you a more extroverted person.

    Also, if possible, give your parents or someone you COMPLETELY TRUST(parents, siblings,etc…) To keep your money so that you wn’t be able to waste any more money.

  6. By Coach Shana on May 14, 2009

    Only you can tell whether it is an addiction. Signs are:
    -If you have tried to stop on you own, and you can’t.
    -You have difficulty thinking of anything else.

    Often times if there is one addiction there may be others that in trying to control those you find another obsession. Ask yourself: Where else in my life am I acting in this manner?

    Find a 12 step support group and get therapy. This is an opportunity to discover something about yourself and it is an experience to grow from, if you seek the appropriate help.

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