This is your problem, right there.

Seriously, you need to calm the hell down. One of the HUGEST turn-offs for girls is a guy who constantly needs attention, like you. This is also why text message relationships are a terrible idea. If you wanted to talk to her, you should have CALLED her to ease your worry, not pester her with dozens of whiny texts. One conversation or voice mail would have been perfect.

She has a life, you know. It doesn’t center around you and answering your messages AS SOON AS THEY APPEAR. Like you said, she has a work schedule that probably prevents her from answering texts at every available hour of the day.

You need to let go a little. Give the girl some space and let her decide her own feelings for you – don’t try to force her to feel a certain way by being needy. The best thing you can do is call her and explain to her that you’re just nervous, and you understand that she needs space and doesn’t want to be smothered. Let HER contact YOU for the next few days, so you know what kind of relationship SHE wants to have with YOU.

There have been a few guys who have done this to me – leaving me texts all day, calling me all day, then calling or texting me back a few hours later if i was busy or didn’t answer, and honestly, I wanted nothing to do with them. It tells me they don’t have enough to do in their own life and must spend theirs obsessing over mine. Step back and give her space. You’ll be lucky if she even wants to reconnect with you after this. Sometimes it’s better to let things go.