Comments on: Does being attracted to transgendered women make you gay?

By: Cindy

Cindy — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 14:14:29 +0000

I am a CD, and by definition, no it does not make you gay. Gay men DO NOT LIKE WOMEN. You on the other hand are attracted to the feminine personality, regaurdless of the plumbing. You are what I term almost bi, just like most t-girls, it has to at least look female. When my friends and I go to gay bars, we are mostly ignored. When we go to lesbian bars, everyone is friendly. See a pattern there??? It is the perception of femininity. Since you are attracted to the female form and have no desire for a male partner, you are not gay (homosexual), you are almost bi.

By: web master

web master — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 05:38:44 +0000

if you get turned on by the fact that your lover is a man then you are gay hello if you didnt know and found out during forplay then i’d say oh crap but it seems you knew and if you were aroused then you are gay

By: teendominatrix

teendominatrix — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 04:28:44 +0000

You used the term transgendered and transsexual, so I am a little confused if the original equipment was still intact.

Did this person still have a penis? Then you are gay. Nothing wrong with that, but you have to be true to yourself. At the very least, you’re bi.

If we’re talking about Post-Op, then what you really have is a “woman” (on the outside) who has the sexual peculiarities of a man (on the inside). While the thought of a woman having the sexual mindset of a man can be appealing to a some men, I think you’re attracted to women, but you’re fooling yourself, because, to put it bluntly, you’re still sleeping with a man, albeit a surgically and chemically altered one. And once again, if it’s working for you, that’s great.

I’ll say this much about the tranny: he IS gay, no doubt about it, in my opinion. If anyone wants to dispute that, then by the same logic, every straight man is a lesbian

By: rapunzel

rapunzel — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 00:21:16 +0000

no,your not guy.You are cofused or curios about things or maybe you want something exciting experience.

By: Ms_LadyL

Ms_LadyL — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 17:01:25 +0000

I believe, that this would make you gay. Just to be sure, when they are transgendered, that means that they are in the process of becoming male to female right? So realisticly you are just dealing with a man that appears to be female, however, is biologically male regardless of the physical makeup. And please be very careful in choosing who you want to know the truth about your “lady” friend there in the Army. Your situation sounds awfully similar, to another PFC that was in the Army and was dating a transgendered and was killed for it by a fellow PFC. Anyway, Good Luck with the relationship.

By: Quest4questions

Quest4questions — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 14:42:24 +0000

When you say trasnsexual do you mean pre-op or post? I do think that makes a difference.

Regardless, if she was pre-op then you were involved in a homosexual relationship. I don’t think that makes you gay though.

If you find that you are only attracted to women with extra appendages, then I don’t think you would be considered straight.

Regardless who cares, sexuality can’t be put into neat little boxes for everyone.

By: senyntired

senyntired — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 08:27:29 +0000

ummmmhuh seriously i think its confussion, u SEE it as a woman, u would never mess witha guy BUT u probably get a kick out of it being dofferent than a woman so to answer ur question….yes u are gay BUT not to the point to mess with a guy. i am bi BUT after me and my girl split thats it im done, so yes i am gay even though i try not to admit it fully by looking at it a different way! What ever floats your boat!!

By: Sir Vix A Lot

Sir Vix A Lot — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 21:59:15 +0000

you should be more worried about not being gay. you’re in the army for crying out loud, surrounded by thousands of fit young men. think of the trans. as a catalyst.

By: Miss Demanda

Miss Demanda — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:26:17 +0000

No, you’re definitely not gay. You were attracted to a woman and to feminine characteristics. If it turned you on that she had a “secret,” maybe it’s just because it was something new and different. Or just based on your attraction to her.
Either way, if you’re not normally attracted to other men, you are not gay.