Believe It Or Not, Girls Can Love Shorter Men
Short guys do not really have problems getting dates. They have the same problems that tall men have. Think of all the shorter men you have seen dating, or who are in relationships. These men are not just lucky. One might wonder if they have some kind of secret.
They do have something, but it is not a secret. They have many things working in their favor, because they worked to make it that way. Just like all men, these apparently lucky short men know that all men have to deal with the same problems in finding dates. The only problem for some shorter men is that they think the problem of their height means it is harder for them to get dates.
Height is something we cannot do much about. This does not mean we should give up. All any man can do to be successful at dating is to concentrate on those things women find attractive, and that are under his control.
This kind of thinking actually puts these men at an advantage. Tall men are used to getting attention from strange women, where ever they may go. Some of these men who have the advantage of height get relaxed about other important things. The tall man may get into more conversations with new women, and might even get a date quickly. But, if he is one of the types who does not give the women the respect they deserve by being his best, few women will be interested after they talk with him a bit. Those that do date him may not have much respect for themselves.
Shorter men are more likely to appreciate time spent with a woman, and this will be detected by the woman. She will find such a man more attractive. She will notice that he has his act together in every regard. He will be well groomed, showered, have a neat beard or shaved face, will be nicely dressed, and organized in planning the evening. He will even have backup plans in case the first plans fall through. All of this is about the most important point, being attentive to the needs of his date.
These are things all men should do. Some taller men, not all, will tend to try to get by on their physical stature. They may think that she is so attracted to him that it is not so important that he shower just before the date, or that it does not matter if he takes the trouble to pick up those flowers on the way to meet her.
This may sound like compensating for height, or lack of it. But, every man has something to compensate for. Likewise, every man has something to offer. For the short guy, getting dates is only a problem if he let’s it become one in his mind. If he does, it will all be in his head.
Every short guy will be successful with girls if he exudes power. The key to failing is undermine yourself, so stop it. Take charge and think like a winner. Some women do care about height, but you can overcome any bias they have easily. Short men can be just as successful as men taller than they are when dating.
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